Friday, 27 February 2015

Percentage of Marriage in Singapore

Marriage Percentage of Singapore


2013 Reports %
Based on year 2013 reports, the percentage of marriages in Singapore is somewhere about 26% with about 31% of them are males and 28% are females.

Around 19% out of the 26% are first marriages and the rest are remarriage.

Age of Marriage
Between the genders, most males marry between age 30-34 & most females marry between age 25-29.

Where Median age is of concern, for males is 30 years old and remarriage is 42 years old. Wherelse for females, it will be 28 years old and remarriage is 36 years old

Median age for the major ethnic groups males will be as follows :
  1. Chinese : 31 years old
  2. Malay : 29 years old
  3. Indians : 30 years old
  4. Eurasian : 33 years old
  5. Caucasians : 36 years old
  6. Others : 30 years old

Median age for the major ethnic groups males will be as follows :
  1. Chinese : 29 years old
  2. Malay : 27 years old
  3. Indians : 27 years old
  4. Eurasian : 30 years old
  5. Caucasians : 31 years old
  6. Others : 29 years old

Based on the statistics males usually marry female who are of same age as them as the highest with older by 1 year and younger by 1 year that follows in chronological order

Divorce,Single and Widowed

Divorced man with single woman ranked highest followed by single man with single woman and then widowed man with single woman.


Eligible Marriage

Eligible for marriage males and females who got married are estimated to be somewhere around 21 thousand each based on year 2013 reports.

Marriages in Singapore is very low. Out of every 1000 unmarried man only 39 gets to marry and out of every 1000 unmarried woman only 37 gets married.


Education and Religion

Majorities of the people who are married are mostly professionals and managements & they held University qualifications.

Marriages in terms of religion wise, more are from Christianity and Buddhism.

Cross Racial Marriages

Numbers released in 2013 suggested that 20% of the marriages are between the different races (Ethnic groups)


Transnational Marriages

marriages between Singaporeans and a PR(permanent resident) or a foreigner accounts to 8 out of every 10 marriages. Which means that only 2 are Singaporeans and Singaporeans. (around 80% of the marriages are between Singaporeans and non-residents)


Based on reports of 2014 although much details were not release as for now, it has suggested that the percentage of marriages rose by 10% which means it is 36%.

since year 2003 whereby the marriages with non-residents was about 23 percent, this has rose greatly in year 2013 and it was last recorded currently as close to 80% of the marriages out of our marriage percentage of 36% as of 2014 are with non-residents leaving only 20% of the marriages are between Singaporeans.

Support for Foreign spouses make easier

This rise is still increasing and as a result of such amendment are made in regulations to make it easier for transnational marriages in terms of support such as work and others.


sources
http://www.straitstimes.com/the-big-story/case-you-missed-it/story/more-singaporeans-taking-foreign-brides-20131225
http://www.todayonline.com/singapore/new-moves-smooth-way-transnational-marriages-here
http://ifonlysingaporeans.blogspot.sg/2014/10/new-rules-clear-air-for-transnational.html

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Monday, 16 February 2015

Follicalitis (Skin Rash)

Follicalitis

What is Folliculitis?


Alternative Names for Follicalitis are :

Pseudofolliculitis barbae, Tinea barbae; Barber's itch, hot tub rash, & razor bumps.

Folliculitisis an inflammation of the hair follicles. Most of the skin is covered with tiny hairs which grow out of hair follicles Each hair on your body grows out of a tiny pouch called a follicle. One to hundreds of follicles can be affected anywhere that hair is present. Actually, acne vulgaris, the facial rash that teenagers develop, is a type of folliculitis. In folliculitis, many hair follicles in one area of the skin are affected.The affected hair follicles swell into small pus-filled pimples. Each individual pimple looks like a small, rounded, yellow-red spot.
You can have folliculitis on any part of your body that has hair. But it is most common on the beard area, arms, back, Chest, buttocks, and legs with the exception of the palms of the hands and soles of the feet. Folliculitis is inflammation of one or more hair follicles. It can occur anywhere on the skin.
Folliculitis usually affects those in their early adult life, and may persist till their early 30s. Warmer weather may worsen the condition.
Please click the below links to see some pictures to have a better understanding

What causes folliculitis?

It may be caused by bacteria. It also can be caused by yeast or another type of fungus. Folliculitis can be due to infection, occlusion (blockage), irritation and various skin diseases. Folliculitis can be caused by a large number of infectious organisms. Frequently folliculitis seems to be induced by irritating substances, environmental or anatomical defects, internal abnormalities and drugs.

The most common causes of follicle damage are:
  • Folliculitis is caused by an infection of hair follicles, usually from the bacteria Staphylococcus aureus. Folliculitis may also be caused by viruses, fungi and even an inflammation from ingrown hairs.
  • The condition is classified as either superficial or deep, based on how much of the hair follicle it involves. Deep folliculitis is usually more severe.
  • Follicles are densest on your scalp, and they occur everywhere on your body except your palms, soles, lips and mucous membranes. Damaged follicles are at risk of infection.
You are more likely to get folliculitis if you:
  • Use a hot tub, whirlpool, or swimming pool that is not properly treated with chlorine.
  • Wear tight clothes.
  • Frequent shaving or Friction from Shaving
  • Use or work with substances that can irritate or block the follicles. Examples include makeup, cocoa butter, motor oil, tar, and creosote.
  • Heat and sweat, such as that caused by wearing rubber gloves or waders
  • Certain skin conditions, such as dermatitis and acne
  • Taking some medications, such as steroid creams or long-term antibiotic therapy for acne
  • Injuries to your skin, such as from scrapes or surgical wounds
  • Coverings on your skin, such as plastic dressings or adhesive tape
  • Having a medical condition that reduces your resistance to infection, such as diabetes, chronic leukemia and HIV/AIDS
  • Being overweight
  • Sweat excessively 

What are the symptoms?

Common symptoms include a rash, itching, and pimples or pustules near a hair follicle in the neck, groin, or genital area. The pimples may crust over. The pimples may have pus in them, and they may itch or burn. When the pimples break open, they may drain pus, blood, or both.
"Hot tub folliculitis" most often appears about 72 hours after you've been in a hot tub or spa. Many small pimples appear on your stomachand sometimes on your arms and legs. You might have a mild fever and have an upset stomach. Most of the time, this kind of folliculitis goes away on its own in 7 to 10 days.

Folliculitis signs and symptoms include:
  • Clusters of small red bumps or white-headed pimples that develop around hair follicles
  • Pus-filled blisters that break open and crust over
  • Red and inflamed skin
  • Itchy or burning skin
  • Tenderness or pain
  • A large swollen bump or mass
  • Recurrent or spreading infection
  • Large, itchy patches of infected skin (plaques)
  • Boils under the skin (furunculosis)
  • Permanent skin damage, such as scarring or dark spots
  • Destruction of hair follicles and permanent hair loss

How is it treated?

  • Warm compresses made with saltwater orBurow's solution. These may ease itching and help healing. To make a warm compress, soak a hand towel in warm water that you have added salt or Burow's solution to. Wring out the excess water, and place the towel on the affected skin.
  • Medicated shampoo. It can be used to treat folliculitis on the scalp or beard.
  • Creams or pills to control infection.For mild infections, your doctor may recommend the antibiotic cream mupirocin (Bactroban). Oral antibiotics aren't routinely used for folliculitis. But for a severe or recurrent infection, your doctor may prescribe them.
  • Creams or pills to reduce inflammation.If you have mild eosinophilic folliculitis, your doctor may suggest you try a steroid cream. If your condition is severe, he or she may prescribe oral corticosteroids. Such drugs can have serious side effects and should be used for as brief a time as possible.
  • Apply over-the-counter antibiotics.Try various nonprescription infection-fighting gels, creams and washes.
  • Apply soothing lotions.Try relieving itchy skin with an oatmeal lotion or an over-the-counter hydrocortisone cream.
  • Clean the affected skin.Gently wash the infected skin twice a day with antibacterial soap. Use a clean washcloth and towel each time and don't share your towels or washcloths. Use hot, soapy water to wash these items. And wash clothing that has touched the affected area.
  • Protect the skin.If possible, avoid shaving. If you must shave, try an electric razor. When you're done, rinse your skin with warm water and apply moisturizer.
  • Use only clean hot tubs and heated pools.And if you own a hot tub or a heated pool, clean it regularly and add chlorine as recommended.
Call your doctor if you have folliculitis and:
  • It spreads or keeps coming back.
  • You have a fever over 101 °F (38 °C).
  • The affected area becomes red, swollen, warm, or more painful.
If the inflammation doesn't go away or keeps coming back, laser hair removal may be an option. Laser treatment destroys the hair follicles, so they can't get inflamed.

Other interventions

  • Minor surgery.If you have a large boil or a carbuncle, your doctor may make a small incision in it to drain the pus. This may relieve pain, speed recovery and help lessen scarring. Your doctor may then cover the area with sterile gauze in case pus continues to drain.
  • Light therapy with a medicated cream.Also called photodynamic therapy, this technique has helped people with folliculitis that did not clear up with other treatments. In a study of seven people who each had one treatment of photodynamic therapy, six people showed significant improvement four weeks later. In another study of one man, the technique completely cleared his folliculitis. And he remained free of symptoms 15 months after the last treatment.
  • Laser hair removal.If other treatments fail, laser therapy may clear up the infection. This method is expensive and may require several treatments. It permanently reduces the density of the hair in the treated area. Other possible side effects include discolored skin, scarring and blistering.

How can you prevent folliculitis?

There are many things you can do to prevent folliculitis or keep it from spreading.
  • Bathe or shower daily with a mild soap. Also, bathe or shower after you exercise and after you work around chemicals.
  • Avoid sharing towels, washcloths, or other personal items. If you have folliculitis, use a clean washcloth and towel each time you bathe.
  • Don't scratch the bumps.
  • Avoid shaving the bumps. If you must shave, change the razor blade each time.
  • Avoid using oils on your skin. Oils can trap bacteria in the pores of your skin and can cause folliculitis.
  • After you use public hot tubs or spas, shower right away with soap. If you own your own hot tub, follow the manufacturer's instructions for keeping it clean.
  • Reduce friction from clothing
  • Antibacterial washes such as benzoyl peroxide are often used to treat folliculitis, and resistant cases may need antibiotic pills to clear the skin.

Types of Folliculitis


  • Bacterial folliculitis.This common type is marked by itchy, white, pus-filled bumps. When bacterial folliculitis affects a man's beard area, it's called barber's itch. It occurs when hair follicles become infected with bacteria, usually Staphylococcus aureus (staph). Staph bacteria live on the skin all the time. But they generally cause problems only when they enter your body through a cut or other wound.

  • Hot tub folliculitis (pseudomonas folliculitis).This type is caused by pseudomonas bacteria. You may be exposed to these bacteria in many places, including hot tubs and heated pools in which the chlorine and pH levels aren't well-regulated. You may develop a rash of red, round, itchy bumps one to four days after exposure. These may later develop into small pus-filled blisters (pustules).
The rash is likely to be worse in areas where your swimsuit held contaminated water against the skin or where skin — such as the back of the thighs — came in direct contact with a contaminated surface.

  • Barber's itch / Sycosis barbae (pseudofolliculitis barbae). This type affects men who have begun to shave. At first, small pustules appear on the upper lip, chin and jaw. They become more prevalent over days and weeks as shaving continues. Severe sycosis barbae may cause scarring.This is an inflammation caused by ingrowing hairs. It mainly affects black men who shave and is most noticeable on the face and neck. People who get bikini waxes may develop barber's itch in the groin area. This condition may leave dark raised scars (keloids).

  • Pityrosporum (pit-ih-ROS-puh-rum) folliculitis.This type is especially common in teens and adult men. It's caused by a yeast infection and produces chronic, red, itchy pustules on the back and chest and sometimes on the neck, shoulders, upper arms and face.

  • Gram-negative folliculitis.This type sometimes develops if you're receiving long-term antibiotic therapy for acne. Antibiotics alter the normal balance of bacteria in the nose. This leads to an overgrowth of harmful organisms called gram-negative bacteria. In most people, this doesn't cause problems, and the bacteria in the nose return to normal once antibiotics are stopped. In a few people, the gram-negative bacteria spread to the skin around the nose and mouth. This can cause new, severe acne.

  • Boils (furuncles) and carbuncles.These occur when hair follicles become deeply infected with staph bacteria. A boil usually appears suddenly as a painful pink or red bump. The surrounding skin also may be red and swollen. The bump then fills with pus and grows larger and more painful before it finally ruptures and drains. Small boils usually heal without scarring. A large boil may leave a scar.  A carbuncle is a cluster of boils. It usually appears on the back of the neck, shoulders, back or thighs. A carbuncle causes a deeper and more severe infection than does a single boil. As a result, it develops and heals more slowly and is likely to leave a scar.

  • Eosinophilic (e-o-sin-o-FILL-ik) folliculitis.This type mainly affects people with HIV/AIDS. Symptoms include intense itching and recurring patches of inflamed, pus-filled sores on the scalp, face, neck and upper chest. The sores usually spread and often leave areas of darker than normal skin (hyperpigmentation) when they heal. The exact cause of eosinophilic folliculitis isn't known. But it may involve the same yeast-like fungus responsible for pityrosporum folliculitis.


Steroid folliculitis

Systemically administered or topically applied steroids (cortisone medications) are a well-known cause of folliculitis.

Cutting oil folliculitis

Machinists exposed to insoluble cutting oils that are use to decrease the friction between machine tools and metal parts can develop a folliculitis on the exposed skin.


Staphylococcal folliculitis

Staphylococci are bacteria that commonly inhabit the skin. Occasionally, this organism may be insensitive to a number of commonly used antibiotics. In this situation, it is very important that a culture of the organism with sensitivities be performed so the ideal antibiotic is selected.


    may occur when Herpes Simplex Virus infection spreads to nearby hair follicles - mostly around the mouth

Is folliculitis contagious?

Although most cases of folliculitis are not contagious, cases caused by an infection may be transmitted through person-to-person skin contact, shared razors, or through Jacuzzis or hot tubs. Folliculitis may be sterile (noninfectious) or caused by a fungus, bacterium, or virus. It is possible to give it to someone else through close skin contact. Some people are simply more prone to developing folliculitis because of their overall health, possible altered immune status, exposure history, and other predisposing skin conditions like eczema or severely dry skin.

Folliculitis due to contact reactions

Occlusion

Paraffin-based ointments, moisturisers, and adhesive plasters may all result in a sterile folliculitis. If a moisturiser is needed, choose an oil-free product, as it is less likely to cause occlusion.

Chemicals

Coal tar, cutting oils and other chemicals may cause an irritant folliculitis. Avoid contact with the causative product.

Topical steroids

Overuse of topical steroids may produce a folliculitis. Perioral dermatitis is a facial folliculitis provoked by moisturisers and topical steroids. Perioral dermatitis is treated with tetracycline antibiotics for six weeks or so.

Folliculitis due to drugs

Folliculitis may be due to drugs, particularly corticosteroids (steroid acne), androgens (male hormones), ACTH, lithium, isoniazid (INH), phenytoin and B-complex vitamins. Protein kinase inhibitors (epidermal growth factor receptor inhibitors) and targeted therapy for metastatic melanoma (vemurafenib, dabrafenib) nearly always result in folliculitis.


Buttock folliculitis

Folliculitis affecting the buttocks is quite common and is often nonspecific, ie no specific cause is found. Buttock folliculitis is equally common in males and females.
  • Acute buttock folliculitis is usually bacterial in origin (like boils), resulting in red painful papules and pustules. It clears with antibiotics.
  • Chronic buttock folliculitis does not often cause significant symptoms but it can be very persistent. Although antiseptics, topical acne treatments, peeling agents such as alphahydroxy acids, long courses of oral antibiotics and isotretinoin can help buttock folliculitis, they are not always effective. Hair removalmight be worth trying if the affected area is hairy. As regrowth of hair can make it worse, permanent hair reduction by laser or intense pulsed light (IPL) is best.

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Thursday, 13 November 2014

33 signs of woman cheating

As previously mentioned in my previous post of 18 WOMEN MOST LIKELY TO CHEAT


here is now another, taken from another source about the 33 signs for man to watch out for if she is cheating on you in random order  

#1 Secretive About Her Phone
She won’t let you anywhere near her phone and has it on lock down whenever she’s not with it.

#2 She Doesn’t Communicate
If you ask her to talk, and she is disinterested, it's like hitting a brick wall. This is the time when to give her the ultimatum to see a counselor together.

#3 What's Your Schedule?..
When out of the ordinary, she is really wanting to finding out your EXACT schedule.

#4 She Nags You A LOT!
She is constantly picking on you for EVERY little thing you do. Ugh!

#5 She's Pre-Occupied
She unusually seems to be daydreaming and is elsewhere in her own mind whenever friends are around.
If you look in your iPhone's calendar, are the upcoming months looking unusually devoid of commitments? None of her 200 cousins has a wedding planned, you've yet to confirm any plans for your accrued vacation days, and hell, you haven't even heard about one of those double dates with her best friend she usually forces you to pencil in each month.

It's possible she's overwhelmed at work or otherwise preoccupied; it's also possible she's plotting an escape and is hesitant to extend any invitations knowing she'll eventually have to rescind them. Or, even worse, she's too invested in someone new to realize she's been neglecting your shared social schedule

#6 She Has A New Friend
She tells you she's been spending a lot of time with a new friend, but the look in her eyes and your intuition says otherwise.

 Your girlfriend might be cheating if she was, at one time, constantly talking about her new male colleague, pal or friend and suddenly stopped. This guy, who at first seemed to seemed to be the center of the universe, suddenly disappeared from the radar. 

 Actually, he only disappeared from your radar, as he has become the number one bogey on hers. If you see your girlfriend showing any form of affection toward another man, alarm bells should start ringing. 

 The only instances that you shouldn't suspect her of cheating are if this man is a relative or an old friend. Could this reverence for the new star employee be the reason she no longer invites you to the office parties?

#7 She's NOT Affectionate
No longer does she accept your romantic advances.

#8 Goes Out Dressed-Up
If she is dressed extraordinarily well just to go out for coffee, and she goes out A LOT. . . You have to wonder who is she getting dressed for?

#9 While In Bed
She sleeps a far distance from you, in fact there's enough space in your bed for another person. It makes sense because there is probably another person in your relationship.

#10 You Spy On Her
You might be trolling on her social media or even spying on her phone as a last resort. If you get to this stage, there is likely a good reason why..

#11 Scent of another man
Scent is a very important sign of cheating girlfriend, but if she suddenly starts wearing a new fragrance, the alarm bells need not sound off. She might be simply trying to spice things up in your relationship. Going off the deep end too soon could damage your love life — permanently. However, if you smell another man's cologne on her clothes, hands or neck, then she may be planting her lips where she shouldn't. Watch out



#12 She doesn't criticize you anymore
There was a time when she cared about what you did or said, in fact, she used to hound you about those type of things. Now, it seems that she couldn't care less if you were dead or alive and concern about your habits, good and bad, have retreated to the recesses of her mind. She might have simply given up on trying to convert you or she finally accepted your faults, but she could have just as easily met someone else who does not have your faults and bad qualities.



#13 You caught her in a lie
Catching her in a flat-out lie is a key sign that she is cheating on you or doing something wicked. When you discover that the person you're supposed to trust has been lying to you, your feelings will surely run the gamut — from anger to rage, and from frustration to sadness. But keep this in mind: if men are stuck with the "once a liar, always a liar" lyric, the same stigma can be applied to women.

#14 Your sex life is nonexistent

In the past, the two of you went at it like wild animals in heat, but now she gives you the cold shoulder when you try to initiate sexual relations and intimacy is nonexistent. Either she has lost interest in you, which is not good, or she is getting her kicks elsewhere, which is really not good. It's time for a talk if the two of you are still intimate but find that she lacks any desire for you.

#15 She has a new wardrobe

She has an entirely new wardrobe, her lingerie has taken a cue from Victoria's Secret and her hair looks great. She could be cheating on you, but here is a warning to the paranoid: if she started a new job, for example, she is probably not cheating. If she is doing this all for you, wake up and please her as she is not cheating on you... at least not yet.
More signs to that your girlfriend might be cheating on you...

#16 She's getting in shape

She hits the gym, eats healthier and she has her eyes set on becoming fit in a short time span. Again, she might be looking to improve her health and lifestyle or she might be doing the extra laps for you. But if she gets home from the gym, showers and runs out (without telling you where she's off to), then something is up.

#17 She works longer hours

A surprising number of women have admitted that if they were to cheat, it would likely be with a colleague. So unless she was just promoted, has a project to close or she's in the midst of a busy season, her work hours should remain more or less stable. If she suddenly starts working 60 hours a week instead of 40, she might just be "logging" in those 20 extra hours on someone else's pay sheet. You should take note, as it might be time for you to punch out.
#18 You're cut off from her family
Her family is now exactly that: her family. One reason for the extra barrier might be to facilitate the eventual separation caused by her cheating or she needs her family to cover up for her. Perhaps the "in-laws" are in the dark as much as you, and would not condone her actions. Whatever her motives, you have discovered that you actually miss the family gatherings that you once dreaded.

#19 She has become defensive and paranoid

She thinks that you are out to get her when you are genuinely clueless about her cheating ways. She stutters and worries excessively when you ask her innocent questions. She answers some phone calls and reacts awkwardly, while she completely avoids other calls. Her sudden fear and paranoia have you worried about her health, until you realize that her health regimen has been getting an extra dose of protein.

#20 She’s giving you space — a little too much space

Just because many girlfriends become space invaders, it doesn’t mean every woman necessarily expects her man to be glued to her hip 24/7. However, if your woman is suddenly opening the floodgates to your free time and not flinching at how you two never seem to spend enough time together, this could be a red flag.
It’s one thing for her to be cool with you having personal time to do your own thing (hey, it’s healthy for your relationship), but it’s quite a different ball game if she’s nearly pushing you out the door or suggesting that you guys do your separate things too often. It could be that her hobby has become some other man.


#21 She brings up reasons to fight out of nowhere

You forgot to buy a certain brand of toilet paper or you’re five minutes late in calling her and she goes nuts on you. If, lately, it seems that all she ever wants to do is pick a fight with you, this could be a symptom of an underlying problem, such as dissatisfaction in the relationship.

#22 She’s more mysterious

There’s no doubt that mystery is a good thing — but in small doses. It’s definitely not an intriguing feeling when your girlfriend is keeping too many things to herself, giving you one-word answers about her day, or making you feel that she hardly ever wants to talk with you anymore.
If she’s usually the one who’s keen to chat, but lately all she ever does is murmur through conversation without giving away too much of her day, this can be a sign something’s up. Another sign is if she doesn’t answer her phone at certain times and you see a pattern forming. An example is if she goes AWOL after work in the evenings or on a weekend day, and when she gets back to you she gives you an unclear reason for her disappearance, such as: “I just had to sort something out” or “something came up.”


#23 She's Turning 25 or 30 or 35 or . . 

Decade and half-decade birthdays trigger navel-gazing-figuratively, and perhaps literally. A woman asks herself, "What have I been doing for the past 5 years?"

"She'll think deeply about her love life and its direction, and if it's not going the way she planned, she might jump at the chance to correct it with an affair," says Don-David Lusterman, Ph.D., a psychologist and the author of Infidelity: A Survival Guide.

The incidence of birthday cheating triples in women who report being in unhappy relationships, according to a survey by infidelity.com.

The plan: Be there.
There are 2 nights when every straight woman wants a man in her bed: New Year's Eve and her birthday. Leave her solo and you're giving her permission—and reason—to cheat. And remember, birthday sex is about the birthday girl. Presents are good, too. Especially jewelry.

#24 She's Moving in with You
Yes, it was probably her idea. But now that you're together 24-7 and sharing every detail of your lives, there's not as great a need to keep the conversation flowing every minute.

"She could subconsciously interpret this as meaning that you think she's boring," says Stuart Fischoff, Ph.D., a professor of psychology at California State University at Los Angeles. "If there's someone else around who finds her attractive and intriguing-and shows it-she might go for him instead." (A menshealth.com survey found that 41 percent of women who've cheated did it with a coworker.)

And again, with the whole goal thing-now that you've moved in together, she'll be thinking about the next step, such as engagement or marriage.

"Face it, most women want marriage, and they want to have children," says Susan Heitler, Ph.D., author of The Power of Two. "If you're withholding either or both, you're inviting the risk of her turning to someone else who can make that commitment and give her children."

The plan: Make it clear that you're thinking of living together as a starting point.
Talk about the future. Talk about her in your future.


#25 She Thinks You've Cheated

Revenge affairs are common. Women have them in an attempt to restore self-esteem and feel desirable again.

"It comes down to human nature," Heitler says. "She'll want to get even." She won't necessarily go out looking to hook up, but when she's tempted, the fact that you've done it may weaken her self-control.

The plan: If you are cheating or have cheated before, confess and apologize.
A survey conducted by Peggy Vaughan, author of The Monogamy Myth, showed that 86 percent of couples who discussed one partner's affair were still married, compared with 59 percent of couples who barely talked about it.

If you're not cheating, you have one paranoid woman on your hands. She probably has low self-confidence. Your job: Compliment her, sincerely, specifically, and often.

"You can make her feel better about herself so she won't become vulnerable to these unfounded suspicions," Fischoff says.


#26 She's Not Getting Enough Sex

Oxytocin, a hormone that plays a central role in our urge to bond, spikes to levels three to five times higher than usual just before orgasm. The hormone is more intense in females than in males, so women develop a stronger sense of bonding through sex. 

"If the two of you are not having as much sex as you used to, she might interpret this as a sign that you don't find her attractive and that you don't love her," Fischoff says. "She may seek someone outside the relationship to validate that she's still sexually attractive."

A so-so sex life could also mean you have unresolved problems between you. Research conducted by Shirley Glass, Ph.D., author of Not Just Friends, found that 79 percent of cheating women cited dissatisfaction in the marriage as the cause.

The plan: Have more sex.
If she's the one who doesn't want sex, investigate why. Fix it. Get naked.


#27 She's Ready to Bolt

One more reason a woman might cheat: She wants to dump you. Infidelity can break up couples, so she might cheat on purpose as an easy out.

David Buss, a Ph.D., a professor of psychology at the University of Texas at Austin and the author of The Evolution of Desire, asked 100 men and women which tactic they would use to get out of a bad relationship. One of the most common answers: Start an affair.

The plan: She sucks—let her go.
You're free!


#28 She flirts with other people in front of you

 This points to larger issues of being attention-starved, having an insatiable ego, and otherwise being insecure. But more notably, if she's comfortable batting her eyes at other people in front of you, what is she doing when you're not there?

#29 She makes a point to say she’s unhappy

It's easy to misinterpret any of the aforementioned signals as infidelity when in actuality, there is a perfectly reasonable explanation. But, if you start noticing that the signs are slowly piling up, and she's recently admitted she's no longer happy in the relationship, you might be on the verge of a full-fledged confession.
Guilt is a tricky emotion, and she might feel that by fessing up to her flailing satisfaction in the relationship, she is offering you (and herself) an explanation for her selfish actions. Or, she could be gearing up to act on a long-held impulse, and making her excuses in advances so she can later utter, "I told you so," with aplomb.

#30 Her friends tell you she’s cheating on you

If one or more of her good friends tells you that your girlfriend is cheating on you with another man, odds are, she’s cheating on you with another man! Don’t ignore this intel. Casually bring it up to her in conversation, and if she confirms that it’s true, you’ve got her right where you want her!

#31 Sexier Underwear

When a woman is involved with someone new, she often will go out and purchase sexier bras and panties – because she feels sexier. There is a pleasure women get in being appreciated as a sexual being and will behave a little more sexier… maybe she’s leaving an extra button undone on her blouse or wearing her hair down instead of neatly tied up. Maybe she has changed her perfume (and that could go either way, stronger to cover the scent of his aftershave or lighter because he’s not fond of heavy fragrances). She may also change the way she wears make-up for similar reasons.

#32 Carefully watch her eyes!
When you are in public, dining, at a bar any social function. Do you see her eyes darting about more than usual… is she scanning the room? If her attention to you seems less intense, it probably is. Even if her new partner is aware of you, she will always be “casing” the situation, always trying to be prepared for the unexpected encounter… Another sign to look for: You are sitting across the table from her and the topic of your feelings for one another comes up. Is she looking you straight in the eyes hanging on your every word – or is she looking down or past you or maybe her gaze is glossy and unfocused. Her sincerity towards you is in her eyes, especially when she utters the phrase “I love you.” If she is not looking you straight in the eye when she says that, there could be a problem.
These signs are a clear indication that your woman is cheating on you, or intends to do so. If there is no cheating, the same signs may be a suggestion that the relationship is not where it should be, but don’t get paranoid unless there is a combination of the above signs that make you feel like something is wrong.

#33 She doesn’t wear underwear when she goes out 

 If you follow the news like I do, you’ll know that loose women are known to carry on all about town without wearing underwear, their snizz on full display. Don’t believe me? Google Lindsay Lohan naked snizz shots and prepare to eat your words. If your girlfriend joins the Lohans, Britneys, and Paris’ of the world and hits the town with her snizz flapping in the wind, she’s probably looking to get boned.

she's the cheating kind

If you notice any one of the aforementioned signs in your girlfriend or wife, don't fly off the handle just yet. Remember, it's important to keep sudden behavioral changes in mind as you examine and contrast her regular actions against her new attitude. When you suspect your girl of cheating it is best to follow your instincts first and to keep an eye out for any number of signs. Naturally, our first instinct when we discover a cheating girlfriend is to end the relationship. However, this is up to you and you need to consider what you might have done, if anything, to provoke the cheating and how much time you have invested in the relationship.

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